Missing Mommy – Separation Anxiety is a Normal Phase
Q. I know that separation anxiety is normal, but my two-year-old son’s behavior seems extreme. He wants to be in the same room with me at all times, and he throws a fit if he can’t see me. After spending some time as a stay-at-home mom, I plan to go back to work soon...
Are Sugary Drinks Okay for Kids Who Aren’t Overweight?
Q. This summer I took my daughter, Stacey, and granddaughter, Kendra, on a trip. During layovers in each airport, my granddaughter would ask her mother for permission to buy a sack of candy and get a sugary drink. Stacey never said, “No.”During our vacation, Kendra...
Does “I’m Bored” Get You Down?
Q. My kids are bored. I get tired of hearing, “It’s so boring here at home.”Michael and Jennifer, who are 6 and 8, go to summer camp, but that’s for only a week and then they want me to keep them entertained. I’m a stay-at-home mom, but I seem to be somewhat depressed...
Is “Affluenza” the Path to Narcissism?
Q. Our daughter married a man with money and a big salary. Our grandchildren are growing up accustomed to having everything they want and more. They get expensive things they don’t ask for. My wife buys them expensive gifts, and they don’t even thank her. I don’t buy...
Would You Like Some Cheese with That Whine?
Q. It seems like my kids are always whining: they badger me incessantly until I give in to whatever they want. I try redirection and even saying “No,” but it doesn’t stop. Why do my kids whine and how can I get them to stop? A. Kids probably start to whine...
Nix the Name-calling
Q. My wife and I are in the habit of criticizing each other in front of our children. She calls me stupid and I call her crazy. Sometimes I tell her in a negative way that she is just like her mother. She questions everything I do, insinuating I’m not doing something...
Speak Now
Q. Our daughter Kristin (age 12) socializes almost totally through social media. In addition to avoiding talking with peers, I’m told she doesn’t raise her hand in class. When called on she looks down, mumbles and can’t be understood. Her teachers try to get her to...
Put Up Your Dukes!
Q. My husband and I took our two little girls, ages 8 and 6, to a house party at the home of friends. There were other parents there with children about the ages of our children, and while the adults were downstairs visiting, the children went upstairs to play. When...
Tackling the Terrible Twos
Q. I’m a stay-at-home mom finding it hard to deal with what people have called the “terrible twos.” Our 2-year-old son is so challenging, saying “no” all day long and throwing lots of temper tantrums. He gets into everything and I can’t take my eyes off him for a...
Fake It Til You Make It
Q. My good friend Beth has a 10-year-old son Jason, and we spend a good bit of time together. Recently my son Zach, who is also 10, told me he no longer wants to hang out with Jason, and when asked why, responded, “Because I don’t like the way he acts.” While I want...
I Spy Online
Q. My friend Eleanor likes to post photos of her family on Facebook. Recently she posted one to my timeline that I decided to “hide” because I didn’t think it’s appropriate, but Eleanor thinks it’s “cute.” The photo was of Eleanor’s 14-year-old daughter in a very...
Picking Up the Pieces of a Broken Heart
Q. Our 14-year-old daughter Bella’s first and only boyfriend Justin broke up with her and is now with another girl in her class. We were told that the new girlfriend can go out on dates with a boy alone until midnight. Bella is very upset about not having Justin as...










