Making a Case for Camp
Q. I would really like to send my son Nathan, age 10, to summer camp this year. I had a great experience attending YMCA camp when I was a child, where I was able to connect with some of the nicest, most popular girls in school. My shy, timid demeanor disappeared and a...
Searching for Peace
Q. I’ve been divorced from my ex-husband for five years. Our daughter Avery, 15, spends every other weekend and a month during the summer with her father. During the last five years and even before the divorce, my ex-husband has been angry with me and seems to take it...
Don’t Worry, Be Happy
Q. My husband and I tend to be unhappy about many things, including the state of our government, our relationship, our jobs, etc. However, we very much want our children to be happy. How can we model happiness for them when we feel unhappy most of the time ourselves?...
Looking for a Love Connection
Q. My husband John and I seem to disagree about everything, including whether or not to hire a babysitter for our two kids. John says that date nights by ourselves would help our relationship, but I refuse to let someone else watch our children. Since we have become...
The Problem with Perfection
Q. Our son Tyler is 11 years old; he’s smart and does well in school, but he doesn’t seem to think he does well enough. He’s unhappy when his work isn’t perfect. His father and I don’t ever tell him he isn’t doing well enough; it seems like he has self-imposed...
Ending Cousin-Competition for the Holidays
Q. Family holidays are a real challenge for me. My siblings and their spouses talk non-stop about their children’s accomplishments and wonderful personalities; they don’t seem to pay much attention to anything else. Unfortunately, my kids haven’t achieved many...
Anti-anxiety Help for Kids
Q. In many situations, my friend’s son Travis gets very anxious, then blows up or starts crying uncontrollably. He is best friends with my nine-year-old son and often spends time at our house because his mother is dealing with some problems with Travis’ father, her...
The Importance of Being Earnest
Q. My grandchildren, ages five, 10 and 14, stay with us for several days on occasion. When they’re here, they don’t pick up after themselves or help us in any way. I decided to start paying them for picking up their things and helping their grandmother, and proposed a...
Protecting kids from sexual abuse
Protecting kids from sexual abuse 2012-07-29 Author: Dr. Betty Richardson Q. There’s so much in the news about child molestation; I read recently that one in four girls and one in six boys will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday. Do you have any...
Peaceful Parenting
Peaceful Parenting 2012-07-09 Author: Dr. Betty Richardson Q. My ex-husband Dan and I divorced two years ago and share custody of our two children. Dan frequently disregards set pick-up and drop-off times as well as the kids’ planned activities and sporting events;...
Happy help for grouchy kids
Happy help for grouchy kids 2012-05-31 Author: Dr. Betty Richardson Q. Our youngest son Sean, age six, is grouchy in the mornings and off-and-on during the day. His grouchy, somewhat pouty expression, his frequent complaints and finding fault with everything and...
Attachment parenting 101
Attachment parenting 101 2012-05-04 Author: Dr. Betty Richardson Q. We’re expecting our second child in August, our daughter Sierra is three years old. My wife has recently become interested in attachment parenting. She went back to work after Sierra was six weeks...














